Friday, July 10, 2015

Silk Purse From a Sow’s Ear

Brother Bob and I vacationed together recently at Rice Lake in Ontario, Canada. Our families have been going there since the early ‘80s, along with our sister Nancy and her family and a few friends from our college days. We usually go every two years, and there’s anywhere from two to three dozen of us. It’s a tradition that began with the Schmitmeyers in 1957, when my husband Steve first went there with his family. (He’s 65 now.)

Preparing for a Rice Lake vacation is no simple matter, as we coordinate bringing a week’s worth of food, bedding, and fishing and play equipment—shovels and buckets when the kids were younger, but a sailing kayak and jet skis now that they are older. Steve also takes his 14-foot fishing boat, powered by a 1958 Johnson motor, similar to the kind his dad had when he was a kid. Before going, he puts it through several performance tests to make sure it’s still working, first in a 50-gallon drum in our back yard and then at a nearby river. After weeks of preparation, we haul everything 400 miles north to Rice Lake.

These vacations seem like elaborate affairs compared to the Kerber family vacations of my youth, when each year we headed to Lake Loramie for a day, a far simpler tradition but one no less anticipated by my siblings and me than my kids looking forward to Rice Lake.


Dad only had a week off each year from his job as a baker, and most of that time was spent doing home repairs, painting the house or some inside remodeling project mother wanted. He was busy throughout the week except for Thursday, when our family “vacationed” at Lake Loramie, a small man-made lake 20 minutes from 828.

Vacation day always started early, with Mom waking by 3 a.m. to fry chicken and pack coolers with potato salad, pickled beets, baked beans, and lemonade. Mom and Dad brought play equipment, too, baseball bats and gloves, sand toys, and fishing rods and a tin can with worms that Dad and the older boys dug from his garden. As the sky lightened in the east, we’d be on our way in our red and white ’56 Pontiac station wagon, loaded for a day’s worth of fun.



I loved being outdoors as the sun rose, listening to the sounds carried on the moist morning air, birds chirping, water lapping on the beach, cars making their way along Route 362 as people headed to work. Vacation day always felt special, open-ended and carefree, so unlike the purposeful manner in which we usually lived.


Once there, Dad would fry bacon and eggs over a charcoal fire. When breakfast was over, he’d sit at the picnic table and read the newspaper while my older brothers went fishing. Under Mother’s watchful eye, we girls and some of my six younger brothers would search the empty beach for unclaimed treasures—broken shells, a forgotten towel, and if you were lucky, a shiny coin.

There was always a morning baseball game as we waited for the lifeguard to come on duty. We always ate “dinner” (now we say lunch) early, so we had the necessary hour between eating and swimming.

But by three o’clock, we’d be packing up and heading home; several of my brothers had paper routes, and even on vacation, there was work to be done.

The Kerber family “vacation” began and ended within the span of a half-day, a far cry from the planning and preparation that goes into our week-long stay at Rice Lake. Our annual outing at Lake Loramie is one of many fond childhood experiences that came about through the ingenuity and hard work of my parents, for surely they put a great deal of effort into planning the day. How wonderful that they could create something so special from something as simple as a day trip to a local state park.

—Linda




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