A Big White House


A 12,240-cubic-foot containment vessel! A haven into which we could retreat. It was a place to
recharge ourselves and return to the outer world. Perhaps it was insular,
knitting our family so tightly that some of us (me) found it difficult to
respond to others in the same way that we regarded our sibs.
There were the “nons,” of course,
particularly the non-Catholics and the non-Kerbers. People a shade different
from us. Not bad people, just not us. When I was approaching puberty, Mom told
me I should find some friends other than the Protestant kids in our
neighborhood. I would be meeting girls soon, she said, and I couldn’t date a
non-Catholic. (Hah! me, a high school freshman, dating! That’s a good one, Mom.
More on that later.)
That containment vessel
leaked, of course. Our physical energies escaped, through a window broken by a
thrown metal cap gun or a door through which
Mom or Dad chased us when we were fighting, telling us to “take it outside.”
Our non-physical energies must have
escaped too, but not always. Looking back I see a pretty tight container, a
pressure cooker even. The house may have been made of wood, glass, and shingles,
but 828 was made of less tangible things, like
the determination of two loving parents to fit into middle class society. It
was also made by the mores of the Midwestern USA, the cultural (r)evolution of
the 1950s and ‘60s, and the unbending doctrine of the Catholic Church. But
these, too, are stories for later.
Like many childhood homes, 828 is the vessel from which I was (we were) launched. And like
the space shuttle, I seem to have an unbreakable tether to it, without which I
would drift afar and be only a dim satellite of the Earth.
—Bob

I'd love to see more pictures of the house to help jog my old memories. Can you post unedited photos, here or elsewhere?
ReplyDeleteThe first house Ayn and I bought was a 20s era Sears Craftsman kit home that was almost identical to 828, at least on the first floor. I didn't realize it until a relative (dad?) came to visit and recognized it. I suspect a lot of families have had similar containment vessels over the years.
Bob or Linda, do you know when the house was built? I would have enjoyed seeing the inside. John drove by it once when we went through Sidney. It reminds me of so many of the homes in the neighborhood I grew up on in, on the west side of Cleveland.
ReplyDeleteI moved into the double (826) next door to your mother in the mid 80's, when I was around 4 years old. Dorothy was always so kind to me and I loved to task of opening and closing her garage door so she could pull the car in or out. My family bought the house from her eventually (our first) and we lived there until the summer of 1998. Thanks for writing this blog, it has been enjoyable to read. Also, thanks for stashing all of those old baseball cards in the steps. It was quite an unexpected find when we opened the ceiling of the steps leading into the basement. -Jason Klosterman
ReplyDeleteJason: I remember the name, and that you bought mother's home. Wow! What I wouldn't do for a walk through that house again. Glad you found the blog. Linda
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